Early Morning Reflections...

These were the few things that I was thinking about before I went to sleep last night at about 2ish and since I had a class at 7:40am I might as well write about my thoughts before I slept because right not I'm not tired yet. So here are my thoughts from last night...

I've been watching and rewatching Scrubs and it is quite an awesome show because of the lessons one can learn from watching. The near cartoon comedy is hilarious and yet the show still manages to get the lesson across.

I think that a quality that everyone can do without is anger. Since anger serves barely any good purpose, it only is there to hurt others or oneself. One can get angry from many things: arguments, a bad day, or how things just don't go your way.

I believe that many many people get angry at others primarily through arguments. Since when anytime anyone is involved in an argument no one is not left angry. Even the times when I get into agruments with my brothers even if I'm not at fault I still get a little angry. Since I've been in many quarrels with my brothers I know a thing or too about how people can get angry or upset, which is pretty much everybody but I'm going to reflect about it.

Mainly I've seen that the two parties involved get upset and then get angry because they concentrate all their anger from other things into being mad at that one person. People can get really mad/pissed at people who are: loved ones, siblings, or good even best friends. It seems when people are mad they tend to think about all the negative qualities about the other person or party since they are concentrating all their anger at everything at that person since they unluckily triggered it. To people who stay mad for really long periods at people I say that you suck because if you think about it people don't really mean to do anything. Even if you're playing around and something happens such as someone gets hurt. I wrestle with my brothers sometimes and since I don't know my strength I sometimes accidently hurt my kid brother and since he's younger than me he gets all upset and then he stays mad at me so he ends up not talking to me for the duration that he is mad. Even after I realize what I've done and apologize my kid brother is being a bit of a brat by staying mad at me, but I guess he's allowed to since he hasn't realized that its stupid to stay mad at people for long periods of time, but if your a mature adult then I think you might be a little immature by acting that way. I may sound a little biased but these are my thoughts so :P. Also another point I want to make is how when people are mad/pissed at you they seem to forget all the good things that the other person has done, it seems that the anger wipes away everything all the good. If the person you're mad at is a good friend who's done a lot of things to help you then isn't it kind of stupid to remain mad at them since they probably aren't mad at you, and they may have been able to admit that it was their fault and apologized, but maybe you haven't said anything to them.

The reasoning why people can remain mad at a good friend, loved one, or sibling is beyond me because for me I don't remain that mad at anyone since I try to understand both perspectives from a neutral point and determine just how stupid I am for being mad at my friend, loved one, or sibling. Some possible reasons for people to remain mad at the other person despite the good things they've done out of love or friendship could be that: they are stubborn, just naturally angry, or just plain mean. Those such possible reasons all depend on what kind of person who is angry. For me if someone makes a mistake and its a trivial thing I don't make a big deal of it and if people say sorry I tell them don't worry about it since there was nothing to apologize because I'm not mad. However, if that same trivial mistake occurred and I got all upset or mad then the person who made me mad would feel bad and apologize. If right now you are mad at someone and they're a loved one, sibling, or a good/best friend then try to understand that the other party feels bad and they might not even be mad at you anymore despite you being mad at them. So in closing I just want to say "Mean people Suck" which I have seen on a few t-shirts and also if you're mad at someone still over something trivial, maybe you were playing around and then someone got hurt or you got into an argument, and whatever method you chose to deal with your anger with the other person, whether it be not talking to them, avoiding them, or just continuing to be mean. Let me ask you something then, how does the other person feel? Probably bad since if they were the one who made the mistake and whatever treatment you give them is probably making it worse and if the other person is a loved one, sibling, or good/best friend. Then why are you making them feel bad and only exacerbating it by treating them poorly despite the good things they've done out of love or friendship? Even if you don't deal with a problem by talking it out normally then you probably should because it will probably ease both of your pains by finding out the cause of the mistake, even if its stupid cause then its still good to talk since now both of you know that you're cool and everything is good. Being angry at people can hurt both physcially and mentally and I've found it to be more taxing on the mental pain.

Anyways I'm not sure if this makes sense but hey I've had 5 hours of sleep and I've been up since about 7am, but this is my blog so my rants, raves, and reflections.